How do you find true belonging? According to Brene Brown, true belonging is the flip side of saying “No.”
What happens when we say NO?
We draw a line in the sand.
We are no longer playing “nice.”
We are no longer trying to fit in so people will accept us.
And we risk being rejected.
It’s scary.
In the age of increased polarization, a desire to belong is almost irresistible.
We all want to find true belonging.
But, according to BreneBrown, true belonging,
… starts with self-acceptance. Your level of belonging, in fact, can never be greater than your level of self-acceptance, because believing that you’re enough is what gives you the courage to be authentic, vulnerable and imperfect.
So, we have drawn the line. We have chosen to belong to no one.
No one except me.
We said “NO” loud and clear.
And now we are alone.
Alone in the wilderness.
Can we brave it?
Is it worth it?
Do I have what it takes to stand alone?
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